Sunday, January 28, 2007

The dangers of people pleasing


No matter how hard you try, no matter how many hours you spend pondering and planning, and regardless of making your hardest efforts, you absolutely cannot please everyone. It is impossible. So do yourself a favor and stop now before you drive yourself further towards insanity. There are many drawbacks to being a people-pleaser. A big one is that you often put yourself in a position of subservience. Sometimes you even put yourself last, which helps no one. Remember that helping yourself and doing what you feel is important should be valued. Find worth in your own opinions and viewpoint, and don't let your desire to please others compel you to keep yourself in the background. Falling short of perfection only proves that you are a normal human being.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

i am not the person yg suka please people....but i know some people does and yet hurting feeling of others coz of fear losing another party..!!!

Anonymous said...

*Sha*
knowing you for quite a long time... getting close.. getting far.. getting nearer... knowing you and ur heart... a greatest soul.. always tried to put a smile on others...

It replies to you too... do and please "please yourself" more than others kay gal.... pampered yourself more than anything kay.. stay cute...

Anonymous said...

sha dont have to know my name enuf to know i budak cantik...:)

Anonymous said...

Hi there!

It certainly was fun meeting you (2 days in a row, wow!) :)

Will link you up in my blog ye?

p.s. Nice writing...uhuk, uhuk, malu nak kawan ngan orang yang terror menulis ni...hehe.

Gigabyte said...

Hi CK..nice meeting you too..thank you so much for the gift...much appreciated.

Link me in your blog .no problem will ask my good friend to link you in my blog too yah..:)

p.s apa pulak terror biasa2 saja..