Are you a good friend to yourself?
If you met yourself, would you want to stick around and talk? Are you the kind of person others can be proud of? Hopefully you are, because that's who will be with you for your entire life. Your values and beliefs create a pretty good picture of what you want to see in the mirror. To be proud of yourself, do everything you can to make real life look like that vision. Find people that have the qualities you want and learn from them. Becoming a person you like gives you the confidence that you're someone worth being friends with. There's also a flip side to the friendship coin- you also need to cut yourself as much slack as you do your friends. You have friends because you see the good in them, not the flaws. You like them the way they are, warts and all. You enjoy their company and root for them to be happy and do their best. Look at yourself the same way. To be a good friend to yourself, accept your blemishes, while still pushing yourself to reach your full potential. Don't harp on your weaknesses. Take another look in the mirror and be kinder this time.
p.s please dont compare yourself to be or like ANGELINA JOLIE kay...:)
3 comments:
"I always felt bad (not ugly, coz am perasan that saya comel). Then I learned that beauty and perfection are two very different things"
Battle of life.. with ups and downs.. meeting someone special, learnt lots from that person. She has the good qualities and admired her so much... that person is YOU!
If I take a look in a mirror again, what I can see is the reflection of Angelina Jolie.. another ayat perasan
hi sha,,,so you have someone admired u very much..hopefully she appreciate ur kindness and heart..
some people are just good with words no action kan..:)
anyway just wanna say i like ur courage and the way u think....bye darling...!!
yap ACTION speak louder than WORDS...tapi kalau tgh marah ACTION and WORDS are fully utilised..:)
thank you budak comel for admiring me..just do my part as a friend in need...
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